I’m 50 and I don’t dress like a little old lady. I like bright colors, makeup, and clothes that make me feel good. At my grandson’s birthday, I noticed people staring at me. Then I saw my son coming toward me; I froze when, in front of everyone, he said, “That outfit isn’t appropriate for your age. You’re a grandmother — dress like one! Set an example for your grandkids!”
I stormed out of the party in anger. I’ve never felt so humiliated. I wanted my children to feel proud of me, not embarrassed. Now I keep wondering: am I overreacting? Maybe he meant well, but it was so harsh. Should I change how I dress to please them and risk losing myself, or stay true to who I am? I really need advice.